Friday, October 21, 2011

October 21 - an (almost) clean house

I must be "nesting".  They said I would go through this when I was pregnant, but I didn't.  Now though, I am finding it extremely cathartic and beneficial to keep busy. Tiring, but helpful.  I have lists of things that need to be in place before I go into surgery next Wednesday, and having my house in sufficient shape to accept visitors is right at the top of the list.  


This house has been a disaster area for years now.  It seems every time I started to make progress on improving and organizing something significant happened.  This time, however, the order is reversed:  something significant happened and now I'm making progress.  And, after moving 50 years of accumulated possessions for my parents 6 times, I have a new motto:  "Toss it."  Simple enough.  No place to put it?  Toss it.  Haven't used it in the last year?  Toss it.  Can't remember who those people are in the picture?  Toss it.  (Okay, so this one doesn't apply to people in old black & white photos from the early 1900's, but anyone else is fair game.)  


The "toss it" motto is making my life a lot easier and allowing me to make significant progress quickly, which gets me thinking - should I be applying this to other aspects of my life?  What other things are cluttering my life which need to get tossed?  What things should be dusted off an put on display?  I find that the things that matter to me are more evident now that I have tossed a few things.  The mantel is neatly lined with photos of my wonderful daughter, some pottery she made me, a small sculpture from a friend and a beautiful wood carving from the young woman we sponsor in Uganda.  The walls are beginning to be decorated mainly with the art work of family and friends.  One of a kind pieces that remind me of them. And at the top of a bookcase stands an old wooden cross.   


The clutter is going away and I can see more clearly what matters most.

5 comments:

  1. Hi Barb!! I am your first commentor!! Yay! I've got you set up in my Google Reader, so I'll get all your updates. Deep cleaning sounds wonderful...it's amazing how that helps the soul! Have been thinking about you lots, and wanted you to know I set up a mammogram for this week. I had a biopsy back in 05 and haven't gone since (bad me). Scares me to much. You convinced me to get my ass in there. Hugs to you and I WILL be praying for you!

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  2. Thanks for reading and posting a comment Amy!
    I am so glad you are going in for a mammogram, please let me know how it all turns out. I'll be praying for you too!

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  3. We all need a gentle kick in the ass once in awhile Amy! I'm glad it was Barb's foot, not mine ...lol ;) You make that apt. EVERY YEAR!!!
    @ Barb It is amazing how our instincts and body's react to to certain things. I went through this myself when I had my surgery on my lung a few years ago. Nesting is a good thing :) You know we are here for you always and every minute! Hugs n
    Love!

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  4. Oh Barb, I got word of your blog, and just finished reading your updates. I'm so sorry about the breast cancer. I have two close friends who have gone through this in the last year. It's almost not surprising anymore. What is surprising is that your daughter turned 18 this month, and mine turned 20! Where has the time gone? Im sure she's amazing like her mom.
    Best wishes for a quick and full recovery. Love, Shelley

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  5. Thank you, Shelley! Looking forward to seeing you soon.

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